"Be my Valentine ..."

I think I'd rather have a root canal.

I made the mistake of taking a look at some of the stuff on Postsecret. Good grief. Who would want to hook up with that? There were maybe one or two that were normal but most looked like what was needed wasn't a lover/companion but a freakin' therapist!

I do my own share of bitching and moaning and whining but I'm not crazy enough to think that it's an attractive quality. I'd actually be a little worried about anyone who did find it appealing.

Anyway ... I believe you're most likely to find what you're looking for when you stop looking and get on with your life, if only because now you are so much more interesting.